Top 10 Ways to Say Thank You Part 1. Linda Michaels, M.A., — Del Mar Dog Training

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How do you say “Thank You” to your dog? If your gratitude this Holiday Season includes your precious pup who faithfully brings so much joy and unconditional love all year long– show your appreciation by including your dog in the festivities. Say “Thank You” to your kindred canine and make your dog smile. Here are some of my ideas, please feel free to add yours to the Wish List.

1. Hang Out with Your Dog

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One of the best gifts you can give your dog is your time, energy and affection, and quite likely, no one is more gleefully pleased with your attention than your dog. If you have a well-socialized dog, take her with you to run some errands or spend some quality time together. Take a long ride up the coast or just about anywhere out in nature and walk along the beach, visit some of our beautiful little beach or small towns along your way. Dogs love country.

2. Veterinary Care

Be pro-active about the health care of your dog all year round just as you are about the health of other family members. Why not schedule a trip to your vet for a complete check up? Choose a veterinarian that both you and your dog genuinely like and trust. Some top-notch integrative-care veterinarians combine both allopathic and holistic approaches to the health and well-being of your dog to provide optimal dog-friendly medical care.

Practice calming desensitization techniques in order to better prepare your dog for the onslaught of stimuli she will likely encounter at the clinic. If your dog has been “dreaming of an orthopedic bed”, this could be a good time to make that purchase.

3. Train Your Dog

Say “Thank You” by practicing Positive Reinforcement techniques. Positive training for companion animals is fast becoming a preferred method of dog training. One of its most prominent advocates, The Journal of Veterinary Behavior (2006) in their article, “Good Trainers, How to Identify One”… recommends dog-friendly dog training because it is effective, humane and leads to lasting behavior. Enroll in a class or get a private behavioral consultation to target those little or big behavior problems that have cropped up during the year.

To get started at home, reward behaviors you would like to see repeated. Ignore, prevent or manage the behaviors you’d rather not see repeated. Remember to set some household rules, draw boundaries, establish routines and make it all doable for your dog by being consistent.

4. Food!

Tasty food ranks very high on the list of things your dog loves. Why not prepare holiday feasts for the entire family and provide a special meal for your dog? If you feed your dog healthy, organic food and avoid ingredients that are toxic to dogs, a homemade meal may be just what Doggy Santa ordered. Super-premium dog food is also a good choice. Who can resist Merrick™ “Venison Holiday Stew”! Hopefully your dog is already accustomed to eating a wide variety of foods in a balanced diet so a new dish will not upset the tummy.

Don’t encourage begging by feeding directly from the table but feed in your dog’s bowl or by hand, away from your dining area.

Whether it’s foods that people love that may be toxic to your dog, cooked bones, chocolate, or poinsettia plants, be sure to educate yourself for your pet’s sake about the season’s dangerous substances. The Humane Society of the United States ( has a complete list of foods that are potentially poisonous to pets. If you think your dog may have ingested a toxic substance you may call the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center (888.426.4435). For a fee, you will receive an immediate consultation.

5. Exercise.

Linda Michaels Del Mar Dog Trainer dog psychologist san diegoGet your dog out for a nice long run if possible. There are many unique trails, parks, beach areas and neighborhoods to explore. If you prefer to watch rather than run, arrange for a “Play Date” with another friendly dog, or head out to a Dog Beach or one of our leash-free dog parks. Remember, however, to bring only dog-friendly dogs to the dog park and be aware that there is little legal recourse should your dog have an encounter with a dog that is not dog-friendly in a leash-free area.

Consider enrolling your dog in a dog sport class or joining a local group for agility training, fly-ball, or dog dancing. Behaviorally, a tired dog is a well-behaved dog, so don’t underestimate the benefits for both of you that come from aerobic and non-aerobic exercise as well.

What about gear? Many dog trainers recommend a dog-friendly front-clip harness for both walking and running in order to distribute the stress of on-leash pulling across the dog’s chest and body, rather than around the neck and throat structures.
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Warmest Woofs,

Learn more about pet parent problem-solving, teaching classes, and private consultations in the Do No Harm Dog Training Manual.

Dog Training Manual Do No Harm Force Free Positive tranier san diego del marThe Do No Harm™ Dog Training Manual was designed as my own personal guide for teaching basic manners classes, and evolved into a reference manual for my private behavior consultations. Created as a practical guide for either or both training formats, it is also helpful for pet parents who want an inside look at dog training and behavior, as well as for those who seek force-free solutions for specific problems. Written with love for the “heartbeats at our feet”. You can purchase and download the PDF ebook dog training manual here.

Linda Michaels, “Dog Psychologist,” M.A./Psychology a Top Ten Rated U.S. Dog Trainer — Del Mar Dog Training, may be reached at 858.259.WOOF (9663) or by email: for private manners/obedience instruction and behavioral consultations near Del Mar and the San Diego Coast. Please visit us at  All rights reserved.

Originally published RanchCoastNews, Lorine Wright, Executive Editor.


Linda Michaels, M.A. Psychology, Del Mar Dog Training, serves clients in Del Mar and San Diego County from La Jolla to Carlsbad, plus Rancho Santa Fe, Hollywood, and Beverly Hills. Linda Michaels was recently rated one of the top ten dog trainers in the United States, by Top Ten Magazine. Linda has a master’s degree in Experimental Psychology (Hons), and is the creator of the Hierarchy of Dog Needs™ (HDN). She focuses on the psychological aspects of dog behavior that often mirror human psychological conditions, such as: fear, separation/attachment disorders, and aggression toward humans and other dogs. She also teaches private, customized basic manners/obedience lessons for dogs of all ages and every breed.

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